Understanding Your Cat's Behaviour: What They're Trying to Tell You
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Dr. Nusrat Jahan
May 14, 2026
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Cats communicate constantly — through vocalisations, body language, and behaviour. Learning to read these signals strengthens your bond with your cat and helps you identify when something is wrong.
The tail tells the story
A high, upright tail signals confidence and happiness. A puffed tail means fear or aggression. A tail tucked between the legs indicates anxiety. A slowly swishing tail often means your cat is focused or mildly annoyed — not content like a dog.
What different meows mean
Cats rarely meow at other cats — it's a language developed specifically for communicating with humans. Short, chirpy meows are greetings. Long, drawn-out meows are demands. Low, rumbling meows indicate dissatisfaction. Repeated meowing can signal pain or distress.
Kneading — the comfort behaviour
When cats push their paws in and out against a soft surface, they're expressing contentment. It's a behaviour from kittenhood associated with nursing. Consider it a compliment.
Slow blinking
If your cat looks at you and slowly blinks, they're showing trust and affection. You can slow-blink back — it's the closest thing to a cat kiss.
Bringing you gifts
Cats that bring you dead animals are not being morbid — they're sharing food with a member of their social group. It's an honour, even if an unwelcome one.
Hiding and avoiding
While cats naturally value alone time, excessive hiding is a warning sign. Cats in pain or distress often isolate themselves. If your cat's hiding habits change suddenly, it warrants attention.
Scratching
Scratching is normal and necessary — it maintains claw health and marks territory. Provide appropriate scratching posts and your furniture will thank you.
Understanding your cat's normal behaviour patterns makes it much easier to notice when something is off. If you've observed behavioural changes in your cat that concern you, our vets are available for online consultations any day of the week.